This is the first post in a five-part series exploring the idea of the God complex. I want to clarify the difference between a God complex and narcissism, as the two are often used interchangeably.
Narcissism is rooted in an excessive need for admiration and validation. A God complex goes further, it is the belief that one is infallible, superior, and beyond accountability. While narcissism seeks approval, a God complex assumes authority.
I was inspired to begin this series after watching Sean Combs: The Reckoning on Netflix. The documentary shows how fame, wealth, and unchecked power can shape a person’s life and relationships. It prompted deeper reflection on the God complex, what happens when someone believes they are always right, above criticism, and immune to consequences.
The God complex is not a medical diagnosis, but a term used to describe extreme arrogance and pride. People with this mindset often expect unquestioned loyalty, dismiss feedback, and behave as though their authority is absolute.
Sean Combs (P. Diddy): In the self-titled documentary, “Sean Combs: The Reckoning,” there is a portrayal of a figure whose influence and success may have fostered a sense of being untouchable.
Kings and rulers: Louis XIV of France famously declared, “I am the state,” reflecting his belief in absolute power.
Modern leaders: Some CEOs or politicians act as though their decisions are flawless, even when evidence suggests otherwise.
Fictional characters: Dr. Frankenstein, in Mary Shelley’s novel, believed he could control life itself, an arrogance that led to tragedy.
The danger of the God complex is its ability to blind people to reality. It encourages the dismissal of advice, rejection of criticism, and, at times, harm to others because the affected person believes they cannot be wrong.
Food for thought: If power and success can convince someone they are above others, how do we guard ourselves from falling into the same trap?
In the next post, we will explore the causes of the God complex.
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