Last Post’s Recap:
In my last post, I wrote about love addiction, that intoxicating high of “falling in love,” the obsession with the chase, and the endless hunt for “the one.” Love addicts often put their partner on a pedestal, revolving their entire world around them, while neglecting work, friends, and even themselves.
If you missed out on the last post, you could click on the link.
In this post, I will be discussing the Causes of Love Addiction:
Love addiction does not emerge in a vacuum; it grows from wounds, shadows, and beliefs etched deeply into our lives. Understanding these causes helps us see why some hearts cling too tightly, mistaking chains for connection.
Food for Thought:
If you feel an instant rush, an intoxicating pull toward someone you barely know, pause. That spark may not be love. It might be addiction.
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Can love addiction be healed?
Next week, in the final part of this series, we will step into the heart of the storm and discover the path to healing from love addiction.
Envy is the green‑eyed monster that poisons relationships. It can come from a boss, a co‑worker, or even a neighbour. Bosses: Show loyalty and teamwork, even if they feel threatened. Acts of kindness can soften insecurity. Co‑workers: Ignore gossip, highlight their strengths, and stay task‑focused. Don’t feed the fire. Neighbours:
Difficulty sometimes hides behind a smile, expertise, or indecision. Super‑Agreeables: They say yes to everything, often out of fear of rejection. Build trust, then gently highlight the imbalance. Encourage boundaries and self‑awareness. Know‑It‑Alls: They resist correction and thrive on authority. Respect their knowledge, but introduce alternatives without making them look
Not all difficult people shout. Some drain energy quietly, through endless complaints, silence, or negativity. Complainers: They feel powerless and blame others. Listen, acknowledge, but don’t agree. Shift them toward problem‑solving. Teach them to “fish” rather than depend on you forever. Clams: Silence can be more unsettling than words. Use